Diary of Charles Francis Adams, 1861
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1861-06-26
For a wonder we had not a single engagement for the day. The respects is certainly agreeable to me who have been able properly to appreciate the advantages of this formal kind of society. I seized the opportunity to drive a long way off to return two visits from person who brought letters to me from America. One of them, Dr Grosvenor, is an intelligent man who has been travelling some time. I found him with his Wife and children, and spent half an hour with them discussing american complications. The other person Dr
r Dallas had anticipated my power of nomination, as already he had filled the usual list for a drawing room in March which had not taken place on account of the death of the Duchess of Kent. The ladies in question claimed the nomination, and I thought it good. But there was much negotiation about the form of presentation which was at last amicably arranged. Mr Motley and her daughter preferring the Diplomatic circle although required to appear there in mourning, whilst the other two ladies, Mrs Cropsey the wife of the artist, and Mrs Shaffner the wife of a Kentucky man who appears to live here preferred brilliant dresses and the general circle. At five o’clock this day my friend Mrs Blunt sent in a letter dated the 24th, requesting to be presented, and reminding me of my offer on her former visit. I replied by pointing out the date of her note, which if it had then been sent in would have received consideration. But at this late date the list was closed under the court rule. So this important affair is disposed of for one year at least. Messr Wilson and Moran, my secretaries dined with us by invitation today and spent the evening.