Adams Family Correspondence, volume 14

131 Abigail Adams to Elizabeth Smith Shaw Peabody, 4 February 1800 Adams, Abigail Peabody, Elizabeth Smith Shaw
Abigail Adams to Elizabeth Smith Shaw Peabody
my dear sister Philadelphia Febry 4 1800

I cannot but lament that the cares and avocations of Your Family should so fully occupy your Time, as to deprive Your Friends of the pleasure of your Epistolarly communications.— a very excellent Letter to Your Son, did but add to my Regreets. that talents So usefull should be encumbered by the daily cares; and obstructed by the numerous calls of Your Family, that the fire of imagination should be checkd, that the effusions of genious should be stifled, through want of leisure to display them, is sometimes the lot of those who seem born to shine in higher Spheres of Life.1 the mind which is necessarily imprisoned in its own little tenement; and fully occupied by keeping it in repair; has no time to rove abroad for improvement, and the Book of knowledge is closely clasped against those who must fullfil there daily task of manual labour—

“full Many a flower is born to blush unseen and waste its sweetness on the Midnight air.”2

In early Life You treasured up a stock of usefull knowledge, which time has matured. wrap not up the talents the returns of which are tenfold when ever You bring them into action— I am disposed to make an other apology for my Sister. she has of late so little accustomed herself to the use of the pen that the thought of reassuming it, becomes a task to her— this I know from the experience of many Months During my late sickness, when I was so debilatated as to find every exertion painfull, particuliarly those of the mind, and I lost all love for my pen. when obliged to use it, I found it a burden—and I have not yet brought myself to the old standard which must be some apology for my not having written to my much loved sister, who has not however, been less in my thoughts. I see her daily occupied in the laudible task of instruction, watchfull over the Morals and Manners of those intrusted to her care, loping the luxurient Shoots, pruneing the tender branches, Straitning the Crooked, and leading on the flourishing plants to vigor, and maturity. I feel many anxieties for my Grandsons. I wish them so to cultivate their Genious, and, improve their understandings, that there may be a prospect of their future usefullness. on the one hand, I see their aged support, fast descending the vale of Time, encompassed with innumerable public Care’s. His Domestick troubles Such as become not 132 a Parent to relate, but such as bring the Gray Hairs with Sorrow to the Grave: an amiable woman with two Children, probably Soon to be dependant for their daily Support. To this add an only Daughter calculated to adorn the first Situation in Life, with three Children, who have no other prospect before them, but that of Humility; and brought to this by wild speculations, in which they had no lot, or voice, but reflections will not alter the situation. the tear which I see Suffusing the Eye, and the Sigh which sometimes burst forth in silence, too well informs me of the reflections within—and wound me to the Heart. You cannot wonder my dear sister that in the midst of Laughter, as to the World it seem’s, the Heart is sad. every one knows their own bitterness.— Should our Lives be continued a few more Years—still it may not be in a situation which will enable us to render the assistance we have heitherto done. this Makes me reflect the more Seriously upon the Education proper for the Children.— Writing Arithematick and Mathematicks appear to me to be the most essential branches of their present persuit. I fear that there is not so much attention paid to these, as to the languages in the academy. I have heretofore mentiond this subject to mr Vose. as the Boys have time before them, I would wish that none of it may be misapplied I want to have them, not smatterers intoxicated with superficial knowledge but hard studients, and deep thinkers. impress them with the Idea that they have not any dependence but upon their own exertions—that they are born Heirs to what they must obtain for themselves. their Education I am desirious of having continued, knowing that it May prove their best Legacy

Your son has his Health better than the last, winter. he is daily loping of his peculiaritys and having been trained up in virtuous principles, will not depart from them— his conduct is satisfactory, his manners affable, and pleasing, his knowledge increasing. Yet with You: I cast an anxious thought about the future. his present Situation can be, but of short duration, and then he must have to buffet the world. he will however go into it, with an increased knowledge of Men and Manners; with a fair and honarable Character, and a thirst for knowledge which I hope will render him usefull through Life as well as a comfort and consolation to Your declining Years—for he has no Vice—

There is not any part of the united States, where the knowledge of the Death of Washington has been heard but with sorrow lamentation and mourning. the Virtues which embalm his memory, add dignity to the Character of the Hero and statesman, and the 133 gratitude of his Country, has been upon this occasion, commensurate with his past services— In some instances, the Orator and Eulogists have forgotten that he was a Man! and therefore Subject to err, that it is only now when Mortality has put on immortality, that he is incapable of human frailty— Washingtons fame stood not in need of any such exageration. Truth is the brightest Diadem with which his Memory can be Crowned, and the only Eulogy which will render his fame immortal—3

“In praise so just let ev’ry voice be join’d And fill the gen’ral Chorus of Mankind”4

Mrs smith desires to be kindly rememberd to you, and to her sons. the good humourd and sportive Caroline wants to see her Brothers— She is such a Cheerfull Girl that she keeps us all in spirits and I know not how I shall part with her. Thomas presents You his Respects Louissa allso presents her Duty— how is My Neice this winter? my Love to her and to Miss Palmer as well as to my Grandsons—the account of whose improvements contribute much to their Grandfathers and my satisfaction— I shall for safety get mr Bartlet to inclose for Mr Peabody a Letter in which will be 50 dollors for Board &c of My Grandsons—

I hope to hear soon from You, / and am Your affectionate Sister

Abigail Adams

RC (DLC:Shaw Family Papers); endorsed: “Feby 4th 1800.”

1.

Peabody’s most recent extant letter to William Smith Shaw was dated 20 Nov. 1799. In the letter, Peabody advised Shaw to seek AA’s counsel: “In your Aunt, you have living, indubitable evidence of hereditary virtues, & the importance, & advantages of early precepts, & of ’training a child, in the way they should go,’” she wrote, adding, “go to her for Instruction—receive it as from the Delphian Oracle— She can advise you in everything much better than I, espicially in those affairs relalative to your peculiar station” (DLC: Shaw Family Papers).

2.

Thomas Gray, “Elegy Written in a Country Churchyard,” lines 55–56.

3.

A [Jan.–Feb. 1800] Dft by AA to a correspondent identified only as “Sir” is comprised of this paragraph and a short closing (Adams Papers).

4.

Alexander Pope, An Essay on Criticism, Part I, lines 187–188.

Abigail Adams to William Smith, 5 February 1800 Adams, Abigail Smith, William
Abigail Adams to William Smith
my dear Sir Philadelphia Febry 5 1800

Several of Your favours have come safe to hand for which I thank You. in Your last You Mention it probable that mr Strong will be Voted for as Govenour—a very good Man, who will be acceptable to every good Man, not devoted to Party, but to enable a Man who has 134 not a fortune to spend in the public Service, and who has a large and increasing family to provide for, it will be necessary to enlarge the sallery.1 this I see has been attempted, tho lost. I think it ought not to be given up, but a new Bill brought in and make it more the next attempt, then You will carry the Vote for what You tried for—in the next place.2 as you chuse to have the Govenour reside with You instead of Works of superproportion, Such as Erecting two statues to one Man—would it not be Eligible to Build a House for Your chief Majestrate Suitable to the dignity of his office and to the stile which our dear State exacts of a Govenour, and which they are well able to afford? to lose the talents of a Man well fitted for the Station merely through a mistaken parsimony, is not giving an equal chance to merrit. it is creating an aristocracy of Wealth, for if no Man can be Govenour, but Such as can afford it, Wealth and not merrit will be sought for—tho as in Sumner, they were happily united—Yet we have no reason to expect that will always be the case.—

You inquire of me whether citizen Randolph is a relation of the precious confessor— I am told that he is a distant Branch of the same honorable stock, that he read Law with him during Some part of his residence in this City— Aristotle defined a Man to be an upright unfeatherd animal—now according to him this Beardless Youth may lay claim to the title.3 But he looks more like “an unfinishd thing, one knows not what to call His Generation’s so equivocal”4

we are told by some persons here in the confidence of   that the Anti party mean to put up mr Gerry for Govenour—and tho I do not think he would make the worst, I do not believe he would be the best Man for the office— I hope the federal interest will unite in Electing a wise prudent and anti party Man to the office the harmony and happiness of the state so essentially depend upon Such a choice, that every person who wishes for its prosperity will exert themselves to effect it—

My kind Regards attend all Friends / affectionatly Yours

A A—

RC (MHi:Smith-Townsend Family Papers); addressed by Louisa Catharine Smith: “William Smith Esqr / Boston”; endorsed: “Philaa. 5 Feby 1800 / Mrs. Adams / Ansd. 23 Feby—”

1.

Not found.

2.

In late January the Mass. General Court debated a bill to increase the governor’s salary from £800 to £1,100, but it was rejected (Massachusetts Mercury, 28 Jan.; Boston Columbian Centinel, 1 Feb.). For the Massachusetts gubernatorial election, see AA to JQA, 27 April, and note 5, below.

3.

Plato, The Statesman, sect. 266e.

4.

Alexander Pope, An Essay on Criticism, Part I, lines 42–43.