Adams Family Correspondence, volume 13

Abigail Adams to Mary Smith Gray Otis, 1 April 1799 Adams, Abigail Otis, Mary Smith Gray
Abigail Adams to Mary Smith Gray Otis
My dear Mrs otis [1 April 1799]1

I am indebted to you for a very kind and friendly Letter by my son, to which I ought sooner to have replied, but I have been a poor correspondent for the last nine Months, through loss of sleep. My Head for more than half the time has felt in such a state of Langour and weakness that I have not been able either to write or read with comfort or satisfaction you who was witness to my situation last fall will readily allow for my infirmities and seeiming delinquincy— My Health is better than it was then, but I am frequently reminded of my frailty;—

I have a request to make you my Friend and through you to mr otis. my son is about returning to Philadelphia, and he wishes you to allow him to Board with you; if you should be driven from Philadelphia, he will be compelld by the same calimity to quit it also— he does not chuse to go to a Boarding House. he could not live as retire as he wishes. in your Family he would feel at home and as his Health is very delicate it would be a great releaf to my mind to have him under your Maternal care—2

I expect him to leave Quincy next week—and he will be in Philadelphia by the middle of the Month—

I have the pleasure to inform you that your sister smith got well to Bed on fryday night last with a daughter, at which I rejoice, and hope her dear Marrys loss will be supplied to her—3 with a kind Remembrance to all Friends Love to Harriot & Marry I am my / Mrs otis your affectionate / Friend

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Dft (Adams Papers); docketed: “AA to M Otis”; notation by CFA: “Copy. Mrs S.A. Otis.”

1.

The dating of this letter is based on Otis’ 11 April reply, below.

2.

TBA stayed with the Otises from 25 April to 9 May (TBA, Diary, 1798–1799).

3.

For the birth of Mary Carter Smith, see Descriptive List of Illustrations, No. 1, above.

Abigail Adams to Elizabeth Smith Shaw Peabody, 7 April 1799 Adams, Abigail Peabody, Elizabeth Smith Shaw
Abigail Adams to Elizabeth Smith Shaw Peabody
my dear sister Quincy April 7th 1799

This Letter will be deliverd to you by your son whom you will find improved in his Health, greatly I think— the weather has been so very bad—and the Roads almost impassiable Since his return, so that it has not been practicable to make you an earlier visit.1

I have been very anxious for your dear little Girl, whom I have frequently heard an unfavourable account of, but miss Palmers last Letter has in Some measure relieved my mind;2 I wish to know if you have had Blisters applied to her wrists. I have seen very good Effects produced by them in these slow intermitting fevers—and they might stimulate the circulation in her lame arm—so as to be benificial to it—

The President returnd earlier than I expected and in better Health, than I feard he would; from the close application he was obliged to give to Buisness for four months together; and he has sustaind the whole force of an unpopular measure which he knew would excite the passions of many; thwart the views of some; and shower down upon his Head a torrent of invective; Produced by Ignorance Malevolence & Jealousy yet thinking as he did, the measure necessary, and upon grounds which it was not proper to devulge, if to our own Country, not to others—and if to one, it would necessarily go to others— he took the step; and braved the effect. as he expected, he has been abused and calumniated—by his Enemies.— that was to be lookd for—but in the House of his Friends, by those calling them selves, friends of their Country—they have joind loudest in the Clamour— they have not however dismay’d him—and time and circumstances will prove who has been Right—

we should hold the sword in one hand and the olive Branch in the other.

I have not my dear sister any of the peices you sent for. as the Winter was so far expired we have made William up half a dozen linnen shirts, & those which he has, john may take. I will prepare cotton for them against an other Winter. I believe they had better come in May 451 to be fixd for the summer. April will be rather too early, but if you think it best, they can come with mr shaw when he returns—

Sister Cranch has been very unwell for this fortnight with a turn of the Rhumatism in her Back— she has been confined to her Chamber some days with it & in great pain. I hope it is going off—

our Good Friend dr Tufts is unwell also a pain in his Breast, and a bad Cough—I fear Hecticly3 inclined he has been failing every spring for several years—

I am better in Health than I have been, tho very liable to ill turns. I flatter myself that I shall make you a visit this spring. my dear Thomas leaves me tomorrow, much mortified that he could not make you a visit first, but he has made his apology in a Letter to you—4

My kind Regards to mr Peabody in which the President joins me. Love to my dear abbe and to my Grandsons— to miss Palmer I present my Regards— / and am your ever affectionate / Sister

Abigail Adams

RC (DLC:Shaw Family Papers); addressed: “Mrs Elizabeth Peabody / Atkinson”; endorsed: “April 7th. 1799”; docketed: “Apl 7 ’99.”

1.

JA and William Smith Shaw departed Philadelphia for Quincy on 12 March and arrived on the 23d (Philadelphia Gazette of the United States, 13 March; Boston Russell’s Gazette, 25 March).

2.

Not found.

3.

A fever accompanying consumption ( OED ).

4.

Not found.