Adams Family Correspondence, volume 13

Abigail Adams to William Smith Shaw, 2 February 1799 Adams, Abigail Shaw, William Smith
Abigail Adams to William Smith Shaw
Dear William Febry 2. 1799 Quincy

Is there no method my child you can persue to escape the constant colds to which you are subject it seems to me you have had a succession of them ever since you went to Philadelphia. have you had anything of the Rhumatism? we have had open thawy weather which has given me a touch of old times, a dumb Ague for the week past; I think the News papers might have given us a little more accurate account of the Ball I am sorry your cold prevented you, yet I was amused with what you wrote, particularly mr Dallas’s observations, which were perfectly just; yet there are some Ladies who can make the President talk; of all things I admire dallas’s penetration; I always despised the appelation Womans Man—to be a Gallant a Man must have a little of the Fop. nothing pleases and gratifies me so much as to know myself the sole monopolizer, and Baches Darby and Joan reflected more honour upon me, than any Eulogyum he could have publishd.1

I hear nothing from Atkinson East Chester and Atkinson are places from which I find it difficult to keep up a communication—

I received the papers to the 21— am impatient for the Report. as yet I have not changd my mind. I thought the House would consider it in the light in which Macon takes it up—yet I know not whether my judgment is accurate;2 I do not like to open a Bundle of News papers without finding a line from some one— I always feel a dissapointment; but a Frank is necessary; Mr Adams forgot it on one of his last Letters, for tho the President and I am one in the Eye of the Law and the Gospel, I believe Congress would question both the Authorities, and wrangle a month, if the Question was put, does the Priviledge of the President extend to his Lady, and are Letters to her, & From her free of postage?

Present me Respectfully to mrs Cushing. she is one of the Ladies who will never find any difficulty in leading the President into conversation. I could name a Number of others— my Love to Mrs otis, and to the Ladies of all the Secretaries, an affectionate 393 Remembrance Mrs stoddart I do not know, but I esteem her Husband tell me how Mrs Wolcott’s Health is this Winter. my Compliments to the British & Portugeeze Ladies—

adieu— how is mrs Brislers Health this winter? Remember me to her—

your affectionate

Aunt A A

RC (DLC:Shaw Family Papers); addressed by Louisa Catharine Smith: “Mr: William S Shaw, / Philadelphia.”; endorsed: “Mrs Adams / Quincy 2d Feb 1799 / Received 9th— / Ansd 9th”; docketed: “1799.”

1.

The Massachusetts Mercury, 25 Jan., reprinted an account of the Philadelphia ball held in honor of JA on 16 Jan. that had appeared in the Philadelphia Gazette, 17 January. The account, obtained just before press time, was only as detailed “as the lateness of the hour will permit.” For Benjamin Franklin Bache’s comparison of JA and AA to the proverbial Darby and Joan, see vol. 12:295, 297, 335, 336.

2.

The Philadelphia Gazette, 22 Jan., reported that the previous day Nathaniel Macon of North Carolina was among the Democratic-Republicans who opposed the publication of Timothy Pickering’s report on Elbridge Gerry’s correspondence with Talleyrand. Macon believed the report amounted to “a considerable satire upon the House, as though they were not able to draw a conclusion upon the dispatches without a commentary from the secretary.”

Abigail Adams to John Adams, 4 February 1799 Adams, Abigail Adams, John
Abigail Adams to John Adams
my Dearest Friend Quincy Feb’ry 4th 1799—

your observations in your last Letter, upon your Solitude; and your reflections upon your Age and feelings, led me to a train of Reflections, upon that period of Life to which we are both hastning, to that period when the wise man hath told us, no pleasure is to be found; That Frederick who was as great an unbeliever as Voltaire, should experience this truth in its full face, I can easily believe.1 How barren and imperfect that prosperity which can have no recourse to Religion to supply the insufficiency of worldly plasures The following passage so fully expresses my own observations, that it appeard to present itself to me this day with peculiar force, upon reading your Letter

“Worldly prosperity declines with declining life. In youth its relish was brisk and poignant. It becomes more sober as Life advances; and flattens as life descends. He who lately overflowed with Cheerfull spirits and high hopes, begins to look back with heaviness on the days of former years. He thinks of his old companions who are gone; and reviews past Scenes, more agreable than any which are likely to return. The activity of pursuit is weakned. The gaiety of amusement 394 is fled. The gratification of sense languish, when his accustomed pleasures, one after an other flee treacherously away. what can he who is an utter stranger to Religion, and to the hope of Heaven, substitute in their place? But even in that drooping period, the promises and hopes of religion support the spirits of a Good man till the latest hour. his Leaf, it is said shall not wither it shall not be in the power of time to blast his Prosperity: But old Age shall receive him into a quiet retreat, where if lively sensations fail, gentle pleasures remain to sooth him. That hope of immortality which formerly improved his other enjoyments, now in a great measure Supplies there absence. Its importance rises in proportion as its object draws near. He is not forsaken by the World, but retires from it with dignity; reviewing with a calm mind the part which he has acted, and trusting to the promise of God, for an approaching reward. such sentiments and expectations shed a pleasing tranquility over the old Age of the Good man. They make the Evening of his days go down unclouded; and allow the stream of life, though fallen low, to run clear to the last drop—”2

who would exchange these Consolations for the, cold comfortless prospect of the Materilist? even suppose it an error, it is one which raises us above the Bruits. it exalts and enobles our faculties, and the deception if it were one, can do us no injury—

I hope the time is not far distant when you may return to the Rural amusements of Your Farm—snatch a comfort from its opening verduer, and forget the labours and toils of the state, amidst the blooming orchard and the Springing blade. to this purpose the Clover seed will not be forgotten. I have written you before respecting the Farm. it is time some decission was made. 45 pounds and the taxes is as much as the dr thinks French will be willing to give3

I ask you questions, but you forget to answer them amidst your avocations. ever yours—

Abigail Adams

RC (Adams Papers); addressed by Louisa Catharine Smith: “The President of the United / States / Philadelphia”; endorsed: “Mrs A / Feb 4. 1799.”

1.

For JA’s letter of 25 Jan., see JA to AA, 1 Feb., note 2, above.

2.

Rev. Hugh Blair, Sermon III, “On the Influence of Religion upon Prosperity,” sect. iv, par. 3.

3.

On 1 Feb. AA wrote to JA to ask him whether Cotton Tufts could draw funds if needed and to inform him that she had purchased eighty bushels of oats and that the price of hay had risen. She also reported that Moses French Jr. was interested in expanding his lease (Adams Papers).