Adams Family Correspondence, volume 8
d1789
How dos my dear Mrs Adams like the City of New york: its
manners & amusements as it may probably be her future residence I hope she found
every thing prefectly agreable— shall I hope before you fix in that distant abode that
you will make us an Visit at Plimouth: to such a traveler the journey can be nothing.
and since that Mrs Adams, friendship is unimpaired: I should
think (judging from my own feelings) that no stimulous would be necessary but the
recollection of former mutual Confidence & affection. such a Visit would give
particular pleasure to me not apt to change her attachments either from time place
absence or other accidents—
I hope you left Mrs smith & her little ones well &
happy I should be pleased to see the Attention of the young Mother at the head of her
Family where I dare say she acquits herself to the approbation of her Friends. her
maternal tenderness she has from instinct. her domestic avocations she has been taught
by early Example, & her own Good sense will ever make her respectable. you know my
partiallity towards her. I loved her from a Child nor has absence made any abatement.
therefore you will mention me with affection when you Write again.—
Is my Friend Mrs Montgomery yet sailed for Ireland.—1 I will not ask any more questions least
the number of your replys should preclude some sentiment of your own when I am again
Gratifiied with a letter.
My pen has lain Comparitively still this winter, I have been sick: very sick and very long, nor have yet been out since the middle of october. but hope as the spring approaches to revive with the summer insect: & if able to take wing shall probably alight among those whose converse both improves & enlivens the social hour.
327If the Coll & Mrs smith should Visit the Massachusets
in the spring: before you leave it: I hope they will extend their Journey to Plimouth.
& I am sure they have no friends who will recieve them with more sincere Cordiallity
than this & your affectionate Friend
RC (Adams Papers); addressed: “MrsAdams / Braintree.”
Janet Livingston Montgomery
(1743–1828) was the widow of Gen. Richard Montgomery and the eldest child of Margaret
Beekman and Robert Livingston. The general had been born in Ireland, and in the summer
of 1789, Janet Montgomery went there to visit his family (Katherine M. Babbitt, Janet Montgomery: Hudson River Squire, Monroe, N.Y., 1975,
p. 3, 14, 20–22;
DAB
).
th.1789
You cannot think how mortified & grieved I was, by being so unexpectedly disappointed, of seeing my dear, long absent Friends last night—
Mrs Smith had kindly given me information of the intended Visit—& as the Weather was
uncommonly fine, though it had injured the smoothness of the road in some measure, yet
here it was no impediment to any ones business—
In the full assurance of seeing you here, We had made all the preparation in our
Power,— Perhaps you may say, “that chould not be much—” However true the remark, yet I
hope my friends will never measure my Love & Affection, by the ability I have to
express it— Respect, Love, & Esteem on this occasion, would in a particular manner
have induced me to exert myself to accommodate my beloved Friends—& We made three
Beds, & laid our Table for you— The Clock struck three, four, five, six,—the table
still waiting, for we thought if you did not dine, you might sup here— Judge Seargant
& Lady, Mr Thaxter & Lady were to drink Tea with us,— So you may fancy to
yourself, what a curious figure we made to our Neigbours— Judge Seargant, Mr White,
& Mr Thaxter had all sent written Invitations to his Excellency &ccc to dine
with him upon such, & such a Day— Four Families of us, were I assure you, most unmercifully dissappointed—
Is it not actionable?— What if we should sue for damage?— I fear now you will not be
able to make us the Compensation we wish,— that is a Visit— Judge Seargant is obliged to
leave the Town next monday, upon his judicial department, & to him he said, “the
dissappointment was irreparable”— It might be years before he could 328have an Opportunity of seeing his old Friend— We all mett
to Day at his House, looking very sorrowful, heartify sympathizing with each other— Mrs
Seargant has been peculiarly unfortunate— Last Fall she shortened her visit to her
Friends at Salem, & hastened home, fearing you would come to Town in her
absence.
And now the People say, they believe, you do not care much
for your Haverhill Friends, or you would have tried Wheels, if runners would not
answer—for the Snow is so level, that you might have travelled with either—
I did indeed hope that my Brother Adams would have visited in the Town where his three Sons had lived so agreeably (as I suppose they did) in his absence, where they were kindly noticed not only for their own worth, but had respect shewed them, on account of their Fathers Character—
I could not help contrasting the dissapointment we had met with, with the punctuality which our dear Father always observed towards his friends, & say, that if you had one drop of his Blood stiring in your veins, you would have pushed forward, & not have failed coming— Mr Shaw went to Lincoln last week & carried Cousin Betsy, & returned by the way of Medford last Thursday, 38 mile with only one horse, & Mr & Mrs Allen got home from Boston before night last Friday—
Mr Adams must have been very lonely without you this winter,— I have often thought of him, & wondered how he could be willing to let you leave him— I am sure his Daughter is laid under great Obligations by the Sacrifice— Permit me to congratulate you both upon the birth of your second grand son— May he be as great a Patriot—as wise, & good as his grand sire— I have not room to say more than that I am your Sister
RC (Adams Papers).