Adams Family Correspondence, volume 8

Abigail Adams to Thomas Boylston Adams, 15 March 1787 Adams, Abigail Adams, Thomas Boylston
Abigail Adams to Thomas Boylston Adams
Dear Tommy London March 15th 1787

I would not omit writing you, because you seem to think you have been agrieved. I do not recollect what I wrote you, but I have Some Idea, that it was an enumeration of the various accidents you had met with, and advising you to more care and attention in future.1 I had no occasion to chide you for want of application to your studies, because your uncles your Aunts & your Brothers had been witnesses for you, and all of them had Spoken well of you. it has indeed been a great and an abundant pleasure both to your Father & to me to hear the repeated & constant testimony of all our Friends with regard to the conduct of all our Sons, and I flatter myself that what ever else may be our lot & portion in Life, that of undutifull and vicious children will not be added to it.— Not only youth but maturer age is too often influenced by bad exampls, and it requires much reason much experience firmness & resolution to stem the torrent of fashion & to preserve the integrity which will bear the Scrutiny of our own Hearts. virtue like the stone of Sysiphus has a continual tendency to roll down Hill & requires to be forced up again by the never ceasing Efforts of succeeding moralists. if humane nature is thus infirm & liable to err as daily experience proves let every effort be made to acquire strength. nature has implanted in the humane mind nice sensibilities of moral rectitude and a natural love of excellence & given to it powers capable of infinate improvement and the state of things is so constituded that Labour well bestowed & properly directed always produces valuable Effects. the resolution you have taken of persueing such a conduct as shall redound to your own honour & that of your family is truly commendable. it is an old & just observation, that by aiming at perfection we may approach it much more nearly than if we sat down inactive through despair—

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you will do well to join the military company as soon as you are qualified. every citizen should learn the use of arms & by being thus qualified he will be less likely to be calld to the use of them.2 War cannot be ranked amongsts the liberal arts, and must ever be considerd as a scourge & a calamity, & should Humiliate the pride of man that he is thus capable of destroying his fellow creatures— I am glad to find you mending in your hand writing, during the vacancies you & your Brother Charles would do well to attend to that. it is of more importance than perhaps you are aware of, more for a Man than a Woman, but I have always to lament my own inattention in this matter. inclosed you will find a little matter which you will make a good use of. your sister sends her Love and will write you soon. I am my dear Son / most affectionately / Yours

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Dft (Adams Papers); docketed by AA: “Thomas Adams / March 15 1787.”

1.

This is the earliest extant letter from AA to TBA and the only one from the 1780s. No letters from TBA to AA prior to 1792 have been found.

2.

AA probably refers to Harvard College's Marti-Mercurian Band, though her suggestion that TBA join this military company is unique in her extant letters to her sons. JQA mentions the company several times in his Diary during his Harvard years but always as an observer rather than as a member. The company never saw action, and though members wanted to march against the Shays insurgents, they were not permitted to do so (vol. 7:398, 401; JQA, Diary , 2:57, 58–59, 95, 103, 185, 190, 236).

Abigail Adams to John Quincy Adams, 20 March 1787 Adams, Abigail Adams, John Quincy
Abigail Adams to John Quincy Adams
London March th 20th 1787 My dear Son

I have procured the Books for you, and Captain Folger not sailing quite so soon as I expected, I have sent them to mr Boylstones Store requesting him to send them for me.1 I think it would be worth while to inquire at the post office in Boston with regard to the other Books which were put into the Bag with the Letters, & must have gone to the post office, or have been taking out, before they went from the NewEngland coffe House. I cannot think they were, because I allways carry or send what ever Letters or packages are going by any of the captains to that House; & leave them in the care of the Waiter, & I never lost any thing before. if you should find them give one Set to your cousin Cranch— your sister has not received any Letter from you, tho in yours to me, you mention writing her.2 the Younger captain Folger is just arrived & with him mr Gill, whom I have not yet seen.3 he was asked to dine with us yesterday, but being prengaged could not come. Cushing Barnard & Scot who have all sailed; had letters for you; I hope you got one which I wrote you by way of Nwyork during the winter.4 Col Smith by order of 12congress is going to Pourtugal upon Buisness as soon as your sister gets to Bed which I expect she will the begining of April.5

Callihan will sail in April by whom I hope to write you agreeable intelligence with respect to her—

I have written to your Brothers by mr Martin who sails with captain Folger.6 I quite long to return to America. pray how does my old friend mrs dana? give my Love to her when you see her & my respects to Madam Winthrope. I fear you will grew too Indolent. I very Seldom hear of you at Boston or any where out of colledge your Blood will grew thick & you will be sick. your Pappa is sure of it. he is always preaching up excercise to me and it would be a very usefull doctrine if I sufficiently attended to it. I was afflicted last fall with a slew nervous fever attended with Rhumatick complaints, and I am now labouring under the same disorder for several days past, except that it is not attended with the Rhumatism. as soon as I can get the better of it I am determined to be very punctual in daily walking— your pappa enjoys better Health than I believe he has for many years, reads & writes every Evening; which you know he could not do in France before this reaches you, his Book will have arrived. I should like to know its reception.7 I tell him they will think in America that he is for sitting up a King. he says no, but he is for giving to the Governours of every state the same Authority which the British King has, under the true British constitution, balancing his power by the two other Branches—

I only intended you a line, but how I have spun—adieu your affectionately

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RC (Adams Papers); addressed by AA2: “To / Mr John Quincy Adams / student at Cambridge / Near Boston”; endorsed: “My Mother 20. March 1787” and “Mrs: Adams March 20th: 1787”; notation: “pr captain / Folger.”

1.

Thomas Boylston, a merchant and sugar refiner, operated out of Paul's Wharf, 25 Upper Thames Street, London (MHi:Boylston Family Papers, Box 18, letters of 20, 27 March).

2.

In JQA's letter to AA of 30 Dec. 1786, he expressed an intention to write to AA2. He wrote the letter on 14 Jan. 1787, but AA2 did not acknowledge it until 10 June (vol. 7:417–420, 433–440; AA2 to JQA, 10 June, below).

3.

There were two Captain Folgers plying the waters between Boston and London in 1787, George Sr. of the brig Diana and George Jr. of the ship Rebecca. Possibly they were George Folger Sr. (1730–1813) and his son George Jr. (1756–1809) of Nantucket and Dartmouth. George Sr. left Boston for London in the Diana on 10 Feb.; George Jr. returned to Boston from England in the Rebecca on 21 May (Vital Records of Nantucket, Massachusetts, to the Year 1850, 5 vols., Boston, 1925–1928, 1:480, 5:263; Vital Records of Dartmouth, Massachusetts, to the Year 1850, 3 vols., Boston, 1929–1930, 2:184–185; Massachusetts Centinel, 10 Feb.; Boston Gazette, 21 May).

Moses Gill (1762–1832), Harvard 1784, was a son of Boston printer John Gill. He had come to London to study law at the Middle Temple (vol. 7:459; AA2 to JQA, 10 June, below; Francis Everett Blake, History of the Town of Princeton, Massachusetts, 2 vols., 13Princeton, 1915, 1:272, 2:116; Harvard Quinquennial Cat. ; Mayflower Families through Five Generations, 16 vols., Plymouth, 1975–2004, 16.3:39–41).

4.

AA to JQA, 28 Nov. 1786, vol. 7:405–406.

5.

The primary purpose of WSS's mission to Portugal was to deliver a letter from the Continental Congress to the queen of Portugal thanking her for her protection of American vessels in the Straits of Gibraltar against the Barbary pirates. Congress passed the resolution confirming his mission on 3 Feb. 1787, and he was formally notified of his diplomatic commission on 11 April (JA to WSS, 11 April, LbC, APM Reel 113; Rufus King to JA, 9 Feb., Smith, Letters of Delegates , 24:84–85). See also AA to Lucy Cranch, 26 April, and WSS to AA2, 26 April, both below.

6.

Only AA to TBA, 15 March, above, has been found.

7.

On 20 April the Massachusetts Gazette carried an advertisement for the sale of JA's Defence of the Const . The same issue carried the first of many positive reviews, calling the work “a very valuable book . . . well worthy the attention of every American at this important crisis of our publick affairs.” The Defence also received negative press, beginning on 31 May when the Gazette of the State of Georgia reprinted a London review that attacked JA for advocating “any check upon the voice of the people.” While the work was widely quoted in the press, it was never mentioned during the debates of the Constitutional Convention and ultimately had little effect on the framing of the U.S. Constitution ( Doc. Hist. Ratif. Const. , 13:81–90; C. Bradley Thompson, “John Adams and the Science of Politics,” John Adams and the Founding of the Republic, ed. Richard Alan Ryerson, Boston, 2001, p. 257–259).