Diary of John Quincy Adams, volume 1
1786-03-03
I have often wish'd to hear the following Question discussed by persons well acquainted
with the human heart. Whether any Person can at the same time, Love, and despise, another,
of a different sex? I think the two sentiments not only can be, but very often are united:
but I may mistake. No Love can be permanent, but what is founded on esteem; but there may be
a temporary attachment to a person, whom we are sensible is wholly unworthy of
it, and such must be I imagine, all the Conquests of a Coquette who though she may be
beloved by many, can be esteemed by none. This Character is so contemptible; that one would
think no being blessed with any share of Reason ever could assume it. Vanity it is true, may
be flattered for a Time; but it is soon doubly mortified, and when once the flower of 412Beauty is gone, they have nothing left to recommend them: but so
much must suffice for the present.